Comments on Karma. It evens the playing field.: Teenagers and their abuse of love

go!! playing with karma much love, "i see hope f...

2006-10-08T01:58:00.000-07:00

go!! playing with karma

much love,

"i see hope for two friends"

Lol. I'm a bit of a blog whore. Lol. This is proba...

2006-09-29T00:05:00.000-07:00

Lol. I'm a bit of a blog whore. Lol. This is probably my fourth one. Two are used for my own personal journals. And the other two are updates of my oh-so boring life. I tend not to update those anymore because I really have nothing going on unfortunately, lol. Finally, this is my last and latest one. =) I was worried, I wouldn't get any comments, but yea, once again. Thanks!! x)

Well, honestly, I find your blogs interesting to r...

2006-09-28T22:46:00.000-07:00

Well, honestly, I find your blogs interesting to read, haha. They are definitely far more thought-provoking than entries that just depict how one's day went (okay, this is a bit hypocritical since that is what I use my blog(s) for). Plus, it is refreshing to see someone using correct grammar and spelling and such. :)

Yea, it sucks. I can put myself in their shoes and...

2006-09-28T01:06:00.000-07:00

Yea, it sucks. I can put myself in their shoes and understand, but I can only do so much. Once again, it just comes down to different views. It's just a little too unhealthy to be so clingy in a relationship. That's just my opinion. It's better to branch out,.. meaning to maintain balance between friends, boyfriend, and family. It's not that hard.. at least not in my opinion. I dunno.

Thanks for your comment though. =) It really makes my day to see that people actually do read my blog. lol.

I think that people generally take their friendshi...

2006-09-27T22:55:00.000-07:00

I think that people generally take their friendships for granted and appear to concentrate too much on relationships with a boyfriend/girlfriend because they assume that their friends will automatically understand and will always be there for them. It is true that their friends may understand, but that does not mean that they would not feel hurt at all when the friendship does not feel the same anymore, or when they are pushed to the side.

And yeah, I absolutely agree with what you are saying.

I can understand why one does that too, and I'm fi...

2006-09-26T18:25:00.000-07:00

I can understand why one does that too, and I'm fine with it. To a certain point. I don't get angry or anything, it just irks me when its something important. If it was a casual outing and the friend opts to hangout with her boyfriend, by all means. I don't mind. But I don't like it when her boyfriend becomes the ONE and ONLY thing to her. I've seen it in a lot of people and it just makes me question their priorities. I can understand, but only so much. I suppose its because my views are different and I like to maintain some kind of independence, but so much dependence on one person is really unhealthy.

But moving on, I totally agree with the lust at first sight. I love KDramas, but its full of bs. lol. Never going to happen. It sometimes can be mistaken for obsession too. So yea =/

And the posting up of the date is really just a proclamation of their "love" for one another. I'm cool if its to show that thats when they got together, but its irritates me when its gone within a month. or two. Because it's kind of stupid. If they dated long enough, they would have known whether or not they liked each other enough to last longer than that, do you get what I'm saying? I just think that when one dates, one should date as long as possible and get to know that person before officially hooking up with them. That's just my personal belief. I've seen a lot of relationships go REALLY bad because they realize just how much they dislike each other after that brief bliss period is gone.

I think that it is pretty sad when someone decides...

2006-09-26T18:04:00.000-07:00

I think that it is pretty sad when someone decides to sort of push his/her friends aside for a new relationship with a significant other. But, I also understand why it happens. In a relationship, there is always that initial sense of excitement. I guess that also spurs the quickness of professing love with someone.

On a slightly different note, I think that love at first sight is bullshit. Lust at first sight, maybe, but how could one love someone with just one sighting?

Anyway, I agree with what you are saying about putting up the dates. Honestly, if the relationship is strong and stable and the two people in it really do have a lot of affection for each other, there is no need to post up a date for everyone to see. What is the point, really? To show off? Maybe they are scared that they would forget the date on which the relationship was made official (okay, no)?